When we had a problem in our home growing up, my mother would call a family meeting. The four of us — my mother, father, sister, and me — would gather at the kitchen table. My mother held court — her arms folded across her chest, often peering over her bifocals. My father sat silently looking down at the ground or table, fiddling with his enormous cocoa hands. My sister, seven years my junior, would steal glances at me (she and I both trying to figure out which of us was in trouble).
Our family meetings were rarely about goodness…
They said firefighters were coming on Friday. I spent the week in mirrors preparing the perfect smile for my fire truck photo. Head tilt to the left. Neck up just a bit. Grin. Open your eyes. Don’t say cheese — it’s a trap.
Friday came but the trucks didn’t. Instead, a short, bald man walked into our classroom and announced himself as the fire marshal. He, awkward and grossly underwhelming, lectured our class about making emergency plans and running fire drills with our families. I mostly ignored him and picked carpet lint until he passed out the coloring books —…
Send them love and light.
Act in solidarity.
reconciling with what has always been
[to be recited with the fervor of a Black Baptist preacher with sweat gleaming on his/her/their temples, with the stillness of a child asleep after playing all day, with the joy of your belly after poundcake, with longing, with a desire to spend your days loving her so fiercely in gratitude for her being, for your breathing]
Our mother, who art beneath, above, through, and within, hallowed be thy presence for you have never needed a name to be, have never asked to be held by our tongues for ransom, will always. Hallowed be…
The lights were on when he arrived. Room silent except for scratches and streaks across paper — the sound of compliance. Fumbling with the door latch, he bumbled into the room and was greeted by laughs and shouts.
“What up, Kwamae?”
Shirt untucked and hair beginning to wick, he dapped up Idris* and Ramon* before stopping to chat with two girls at the last table.
My feet hurt. I spun on my patent-leathered toes and met him there.
“Hi. I’m Ms. Martin,” I began with a smile.
They say don’t smile until Christmas. I don’t believe that…
[trigger warning: sexual assault, rape]
I did not understand most of the fiery language that rolled off their tongues. You do not have to understand words to remember them. And they, both their words and bodies, branded my body before I knew her — before she became them, before they became me.
I was too drunk or they were too drunk or we were both too drunk to care about pleasantries necessary before what was coming. My pulse skipping to the boom of bass and drum, Rihanna’s falsetto pounded against walls of the small-town dancehall — “please don’t stop the…
Note: This essay first appeared in the All Y’all Collective’s Mouth of the South Series in February 2020.
This week, another heartbreaking news story(1) regarding the traumatization of black children in our schools filled our timelines. This time, she is a beautiful brown-skinned six-year-old arrested at her school by the Orlando Police for seemingly having six-year-old tendencies — throwing a temper-tantrum in a state of unrest, frustration, and/or sadness. I don’t know every detail of Kaia’s story. What I do know, however, are hundreds of black and brown girls just like Kaia who are not allowed to simply just exist…
After Chance the Rapper’s “Sunday Candy”
A sermon on love, faith, and queerness
It is 1995. I am standing outside of Mount Nebo Pentecostal Church. White gloves don my caramel-coated hands. I search through my patent leather white purse for hard candy. I find it at the bottom, underneath a collection of used and unused tissues from today’s service. The crumpled dollar my mama gave me for today’s offering is gone rendering my purse useless except for holding these snotrags and the hard candy my grandmama gave me a few Sundays back. I had been saving it for a special…
This morning, I woke up.
In the middle of a pandemic.
I am thirty-one.
Healthy, well and loved.
No candles needed — i am living my wish.
One year ago, I made a list of 13 goals for my 30th year. Like most of my dreams, the list was overly ambitious and ridiculous. It represented a combination of things I loved, missed, and thought were good for me — a resolutions list on steroids. I posted the list publicly. I told friends and family to hold me accountable. My friends sent me cash to buy plane tickets and…
On her last birthday here, my mama, brown-skinned and big boned, sat propped upon a throne of white pillows, her presence reigning over her illness and her stubbornness denying her body’s desire to quit. A symphony of blinking lights and beeping machines brought her back to life for one more dance. She, the strongest black woman, and me, her seed, fought over green beans. Her fragility moonlighting as stubbornness guided my hands to the fork for bites of flavorless vegetables.
“You’ve gotta eat, mom,” I said. What I meant was “you gotta live, mom.”
She opens her mouth…
boston-based lit educator, researcher, and mixtape maker raised at the intersections of gospel and go-go. find [them] dreaming and working toward liberation.